Feeling the Winter Blues? Why External Fixes Don’t Last Feeling the winter blues? A holiday or new car might lift your mood for a moment, but research shows the boost doesn’t last, a cycle known as the hedonic treadmill. Real wellbeing comes from within: connection, gratitude, and resilience matter more than possessions. At Resilience Counselling Taupō, we help you move beyond quick fixes and find lasting emotional wellbeing.